Hunter McGrady made historical past in 2017 as the curviest model—a measurement 16—to ever seem in the Sports activities Illustrated Swimsuit Difficulty, amplifying her platform for physique positivity and inclusive sizing. Forward of her wedding ceremony, she opened up to Glamour about the stress put on brides to drop some weight, why she thinks that’s bullshit, and the way she targeted on feeling assured and excited—not thinner.
After I was youthful, in all probability 18 or 19, I used to watch exhibits like Say Sure to the Costume and 4 Weddings and listen to girls say again and again, “Properly, that is nice, however I’m planning on dropping about 30 kilos.” I keep in mind pondering, When did your wedding ceremony change into your weight reduction journey? Society is all the time attempting to dictate what a lady’s physique ought to appear to be, and that’s very true when girls change into brides. We’re advised we’ve got to drop some weight, that our arms have to look a sure manner, that we want to change all the things about ourselves earlier than we stroll down the aisle.
Planning your wedding ceremony is meant to be a lot enjoyable, however the emphasis positioned on weight makes it tainted, worrying. I made a vow with myself and my fiancé that I might not get harassed over this wedding ceremony—so I known as bullshit on the concept that I ought to drop some weight for my wedding ceremony.
After I began costume purchasing, one in all the first questions salespeople requested me was whether or not I used to be planning on staying this measurement for the wedding ceremony. It made my coronary heart sink. I walked in feeling assured and dreaming of a costume that was romantic and kooky, and all of the sudden all I may assume was, Wait a second, ought to I drop some weight? I even had salespeople say that they may cowl sure areas to conceal my hips or my tummy. Are you kidding? I need to intensify my curves! Right here’s one other factor: We want to begin educating the individuals who work in retail about how to communicate to prospects, as a result of if they need to assist, they want to do it the appropriate manner.
Not each lady is ashamed of her physique. We want to cease pushing that narrative.
The sizes on wedding ceremony attire don’t assist. In the wedding ceremony world the quantity is definitely larger than the sizes of your avenue garments. I’m a measurement 16/18, however in a marriage costume I’m a 22/24, which is wild to me. As girls, we’re consistently pressured to match right into a sure measurement. There’s a lot emphasis positioned on the quantity inside your costume, and we’ve been advised our complete lives that bigger numbers are dangerous—society has brainwashed us to consider that being something bigger in a quantity measurement is value freaking out about it, and that’s bullshit.